28 August 2010

Rear of Car Damaged

I have had my car for a year and a month by today. It has never been damaged, for I always drive carefully. Last weekend was my first time to drive for about 400 kilometres. We have been to Awenda Provincial Park with our church friends. On the way back, it rained cats and dogs, but no incidents happened with me.

But today, when we left home for the library, I was reversing my car down our driveway, Daniel told me that there was a bee in the front of our car, flying about the front left window, and asked me to close the window at the moment the bee was a bit outside the window. I hit a car behind me on the road. The rear left corner of my car was quite seriously damaged. The right side of the other car was pushed into a concave. Luckily the black driver was very nice and did not ask me for compensation.


Before the collision

21 May 2010

如何保持谦卑呢?

所以有一位主内的弟兄(邵庆彰─《默想集》)总结了一些,在日常生活中保持谦卑的方法,如何保持谦卑呢?首先,当事情成功时,由心底马上归荣耀给主,也归功于人。
第二,当事情失败时,由心地归咎自己,不推诿他人。
第三,某事我不在内,成功与人同喜,绝不吹毛求疵,说风凉话。
第四,某事我不在内,失败与人同忧,不说他们不事先与我商量,罪有应得。
第五,他人意见与我不同,尤其是反对我者,能虚心接受其正确见解。
第六,助人,人不谢恩,会无所谓、一笑置之。
第七,事做错了,大大方方的承认,向人说对不起。
第八,什么事不懂,便说不懂,不装作样样都会。
第九,与人做事,风头让人去出,甘愿作暗中无名的工作。
第十、与人做事,静静地学习,欣赏他人长处,不是急急地要显露自己才干。
第十一、别人责骂,不马上反唇相讥,或含怒待机而发,反而逆来顺受,苦只吐露主前,有机会时行善以感动对方。
第十二、当主用他人不用我时,会像施洗约翰说:“祂必兴旺,我必衰微。”